Watching someone we love and care about battle a sickness or disease, especially one like breast cancer can be a draining experience. Finding ways to support them can feel overwhelming but sometimes, the most meaningful acts of love come from simple gestures and thoughtful actions. Here are five heartfelt tips to help you be the best cheerleader for your loved one:
1. Surprise Them with Care Packages
Forget the standard “get well soon” gifts. Create a custom care package filled with their favourite things. It could be socks, a quirky journal, or a playlist of feel-good music, think about what would make them smile. You could even add fun items like adult colouring books, puzzles, or a movie night kit with popcorn and comfy blankets. If they’re going through treatment, include thoughtful additions like unscented lotions, lip balm, or tea to help with side effects.
2. Plan Virtual Hangouts
Can’t be there in person? No worries! Host a virtual hangout. From Netflix watch parties to game nights over Zoom, there are tonnes of ways to connect and keep their spirits high. How about a virtual trivia night? Laughter is often the best medicine, so plan something fun to help them unwind and forget about the stress for a while.
3. Create a “Positivity Jar”
Here’s a sweet, simple project that keeps on giving: a positivity jar! Fill it with notes of encouragement, funny jokes, or inspirational quotes. Every day, they can pull out a new note to remind them how much they’re loved and supported.
4. Help with “Everyday Stuff”
Let’s face it, battling cancer can take a lot of energy, and even simple tasks can feel overwhelming. Offer to help with daily chores, but put a fun spin on it. Turn laundry day into a karaoke session, or transform meal prep into a mini cooking show—bring out those aprons! You can also offer to run errands or set up a rotating schedule with friends and family so they always have a helping hand without feeling like a burden.
5. Celebrate Every Little Victory
When they hit a milestone, whether big or small, make sure to celebrate. Did they finish a round of treatment? Plan a themed party or send a surprise delivery of their favourite dessert. You can even create a “milestone map” and reward them with something fun at each checkpoint—like a handwritten card, a silly trophy, or a spa day in the comfort of their home. Every victory deserves a celebration.
Remember, ladies, it’s that time of the year again—Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Let’s not forget to get ourselves checked.
