Dates. Some are horrible; some are sweet. It’s one of the phases of adulthood that we cannot wish away as social creatures. Another phase of adulthood that can’t be wished away is BILLS. It’s like a Pandora’s box of daily responsibilities that you must take care of for the rest of your life.
Speaking of bills and dates, so you’ve been talking to this guy for a while, and then he decides to ask you out on a date. You look for the perfect dress, the right perfume…you know, the whole ensemble for the occasion. You arrive, the conversation is great, the food is exquisite, and then it’s time to pay the bills, and your date asks you to pick up half of the tab. Does this immediately ruin the date for you, or it’s no big deal?
On a first date, I feel like that screams, “I AM STINGY”! But you know what they say, different strokes for different folks. Those who don’t mind have argued that:
- It shows equality in action, looking at it from the gender equality perspective.
- It takes pressure and unnecessary expectations away from one person.
- It’s a good financial habit that helps with accountability.
- It shows maturity.
Those who absolutely mind say:
- It ruins their first impression of the guy because they believe anyone who initiates a date should foot the bill.
- It takes away the romance factor from the date. A first date is meant to feel special, and for many, the tradition of treating someone to a meal or experience adds to the excitement.
- In many cultures, especially in Africa, the host is responsible for taking care of their guests. Splitting bills might be seen as a deviation from tradition.
- It’s a way to gauge generosity, financial values, or even commitment levels. If someone insists on splitting, it might send the wrong message.
What do you think? Is splitting the bill a red flag, or is it just smart money management? Regardless of which side you’re on, a helpful savings tip for my girlies in Nigeria is to always look out for discounts and promos on the UBA Promo page, especially on special occasions like Valentine’s Day or the holidays.
You know UBA is always up for you saving some money because we care about your progress.
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